Mrs Pamela Ellen Harmer

In memory of a good friend and colleague. Love Jen

Mrs Jen Scott

Sincere condolences, Pam was always kind and supportive to me when we met in 2004. Live to all her friends and Family.

. Paul James

Missed lots by us all x Happy birthday x Lots of love Rachel, Dan, Charlie & Rory xxxx

Mrs Rachel Giles

In memory of Pam Harmer. Love from Margaret Hulkes

Mrs Kerri Hulkes

Thinking of Colin, Luke & Family at this extremely sad time. I will always remember Pam’s beautiful smile. Rest in peace Pam x With love Faye & Family xxxx

Mrs Faye Slater

Sleep tight Pam, you were a ray of sunshine every day.

Miss Katherine Wilkinson

Every time I get a Picnic problem I'll think of you as I'm dealing with yet another one.

Mr Dave Livingstone

Pam you will be very much missed and leave a hole in your Upham family that can never be filled. Thoughts are with Colin, Luke & Family.

Mr Daniel Jeffery

A wonderful person who's life was cut too short. Love Sally and Richard

Mr Richard Banks

Pam, you are dearly missed by all who had the absolute pleasure of knowing you. You were one of a kind and I was honoured to call you my friend.

Mrs Caroline McPhail

Pam! You will be truly missed. May your soul rest in peace.

Mr Pawel Opara

Pam, you truly were 1 in a million, you have no idea the impact you had on people around you and I will miss sorting your many many many papers. Your presence is missed everyday, thoughts are with everyone xx

Miss Danni Moore

Pam, you were the ‘Mum of Upham’ that we all needed and miss every single day! Your energy and positivity was boundless and you pushed us to do our best in every situation. You were taken far too early but leave such a legacy in us all x

Mr Alasdair Wilson-Parkin

Pam, your beautiful smile will be missed by all that love you. Sleep tight lovely lady. Sending much love to Colin & Luke. X

Mrs Carol Perkins

Pam, what a beautiful soul you were. Thank you for the laughter, the love, and all the memories. You were always there — listening, supporting, and lifting others up with your warmth and kindness. People like you are rare, and I feel so lucky to have known you. You’ve left a mark on my life and so many others. Youve raised such a beautiful son, who will be an amazing human and will make you so so proud! You were truly one of the good ones, Pam. (A good egg, Pam, a good egg) You will be missed so so missed Rest in peace

Miss Diana Necula

Pam, My fellow yellow, you will be shinning just as bright in the Sky. I will miss your kindness and your smile and you will be forever in our hearts xx

Miss Summer Pothecary

Pam In fond memory of your positivity and the overall feel good energy you created. It’s totally unfair you left us too early but you left a positive legacy. Ian

Mr Ian Dunstall

Dear Pam, even though we only met a few times you became “one of the family” instantly- your laughter and smiles were contagious- it’s like you had been a friend always there and I’ve no doubt our memories of our girls weekend at Potters will always bring us smiles! Fly high Pam - make all the relatives smile - your time was far too soon - until we meet again - Diana & Georgina xx

Mrs Diana Pitchford

Thinking of you all and sending lots of love xxx

Mr and Mrs Stan & Judy Porter

Our thoughts are with you all xxx

Mr and Mrs Darren & Mandy Goodey

Pam a beautiful girl with a big personality! now a big bright shining star! Miss you so much you crazy girl. Fly high beautiful girl with your angel wings, until we meet again. Always in our hearts Linda & Vic xx

Mr and Mrs V&L Gwatkin

You always gave the best hugs miss you x

Mr Colin Wheatley

Pam i got to know you so much better from been at Linda’s house so much. you was a caring and warm person i was so shocked to hear this disease had got hold of you.we had such a brilliant time at potters you became a fully fledged member of our family . You will be missed by so many . fly high Pam god bless you it’s not goodbye it’s until we meet again x

Mrs Christine Griffin

My thoughts are with Colin, Luke and family at this very sad time Pam was always the life and sole of everything she did and she had this easy way about her which meant she made everyone a little happier by just bring the same room as her, she was definitely gifted! Sleep tight beautiful lady, you’ll be deeply missed… Love Terri xxxx (xMAB)

Miss Terri Hill

Pam, I feel so lost without hearing that famous laugh. I keep expecting to see you walk through the back door with cake in one hand and a bottle of water in the other saying “Hi”. You have taken me to some amazing places, introduced me to some amazing people and we always had the best time together laughing until it hurt. It’s difficult adjusting to life without you, you were a big part of the family. You were the most ‘people person’ on the planet, always ready to help others. You were passionate about raising money and awareness for charities, which makes the idea of raising money for Farleigh Hospice the perfect thing to do in your honour. They did an amazing job taking care of you during your final days with us. Pam, rest well my beautiful friend. I’m so sorry you were taken far too soon. You had so many plans for the future, non of this is fair at all. I will keep your memory alive with our crazy stories. Love you always. Kerri, Steve, Lucy & Charlie

Mr and Mrs Kerri Hulkes