Richard died, aged 87, on Tuesday November 10th, in Broomfield Hospital, Chelmsford. He was dearly loved by his family and friends and will be sorely missed.
Richard (Dick) was born in Weymouth on May 18th, 1933. He attended St Edward’s School, Oxford, and studied History at Pembroke College, Cambridge. He joined HM Diplomatic Service, serving in the Far East, Malaysia, Northern Ireland, ending his diplomatic career as Ambassador in Sierra Leone.
He was married to Bobby Vindenes and to Jane Barker.
After his retirement Richard lived in Teddington, Greater London, and was a beloved member of the community: working as a furniture restorer; volunteering for the Twickenham CAB and for Richmond AID; and a valued member of the Kingston Choral Society for over 40 years. He joined the congregation of All Saint’s Church near to his final home in Hampton.
Due to Covid restrictions a memorial service will be held in his honour, date TBA.
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Pam, Lucy and Jenny - what a very lovely Daddy you had. Always so gracious and so wonderful to have spent an evening dancing with him in Hampton the summer before last. Such fond memories. I pray that every penny of donations made in his memory will have a bigger impact than any of us could dream or imagine in finding a cure for Parkinsons. With much love, Philippa xxxxxxx
Miss Philippa Robb
Missing Richard's considerate and effective contribution to Richmond AID as volunteer and trustee.
Mr Andrew Craig
Dick was a loyal and supportive colleague in the Foreign and Commonwealth Office, always approachable and always good company. Our memories of him go back a long way and range from London to Beijing and Hongkong. Later he came to our house in Lindon to give us the benefit of his expert furniture restoration skills. We shall miss him and are very glad to have known him. Susan Pares and Jim Hoare
Ms Susan Pares
In loving memory of Dick, who was always a firm friend to my parents and to all of us, since we first got to know him and his family in Kuala Lumpur all those years ago. He was one of the good ones.
Mrs Marabel Clark
In memory of a wonderful Daddy/Father-in-law/Grandpa. We are going to miss you so much. Lucy, Marc and Hugh.
Doctor Lucy Rinaldi
In memory of my step father- Dear Richard, I miss you so much. You were dear step father and marvellous friend, I really miss your company and great family times that we all spent together. You enriched my mother's and families's lives. I will treasure those memories. You were a very generous and kind man and I miss your wisdom too. I wish we had a bit more time together. All my love, Jo. Step Daughter Josephine Barker
Miss Josephine barker
Many Happy and Fun Memories, love to all. Christopher and Carolyn
Mr Christopher Cobb
In memory of a truly lovely and kind gentleman whose calm and caring nature shone out. From Caroline, Richard, Daniel and Elizabeth Kingswood xxxx
Mrs Caroline Kingswood
A Close and old friend from Pembroke days. In memory of many happy times together.
Paul & Judy Mayes & family
Mr Paul Mayes
From the Teddington Society with thanks for your involvement with the Planning Group
The Teddington Society
Richard was such a kind funny man. A great loss
Anonymous
In loving memeory of Grandad Richard, his kindness to all of us has left nothing but happy memories that shall never be superseded. All my love, Alex
Mr Alex Barker
In loving memory of Grandad Richard: the kindest, most generous and intelligent man, and a loving grandfather. We will all miss him so much. His spirit and the memories made with him will last forever.
Miss Sophie Barker
Fondest memories, Dick Love from us all in VA
Mr and Mrs Jeremy Clift
Thank you for being such a kind grandpa to me and my siblings. I wish I had a chance to talk more about your interesting life working around the world. Love from Luke
Mr Luke Barker
We feel truly grateful and blessed to have had RIchard in our lives. He will be very dearly missed by us all. Nigel, Geraldine, Anna and John Barker
Mr Nigel Barker
Richard Clift, wonderful stepfather to me and adored grandpa to our kids. The kindest and truest gentleman I have ever known. We will miss your generous smile, your witty humour, but we will take comfort in remembering the great times that we had. RIP great man. All our love, Simon, Rana, Aydin and Alara xxxx
Mr Simon Barker
In memory of my step father, dear Richard, I am so grateful to have known you for 40 years, your modesty, your selflessness, and above all your sense of humour and joy, I so wish it had been longer, all my love Julian.
Mr Julian Barker
In memory of the most wonderful father-in-law, I shall always remember Richard's incredibly considerate and caring nature, his great kindness, his full enjoyment of life and his erudite wisdom. Remembering all the wonderful, fun and happy times Julian, our children and I spent with Richard over the last 30 years, all my love, Sarah XX
Mrs Sarah Barker
in loving memory of all the good times we had together. Bobby
Mr and Mrs barbara vindenes
In memory of grandpa. Always kind, generous and smiling. We will miss you a lot. From Nic and Tom
Mr Tom Langmead
In memory of a good brother
Mr Guy Clift
To the very best Daddy and father-in-law in the world. Thank you for always being there for us, we are going to miss you so much. Pam and Steve xxx
Mrs Pam Langmead
In memory of a real gentleman
Mr and Mrs Nick Boothman
You were such a wonderful, loving, generous father/grandpa/father-in-law and we will all miss you so much. All our love always, Jenny, Alfonso, Elisa, Emma and Silvia. xxooxx
Mrs Jenny Clift
In loving memory of my dear friend Richard (Dick) Clift who was a friend from school days at St Edwards onwards. He will be greatly missed. Peter and Jenifer Rohde
Dr Peter Rohde
My lovely friend Richard who I will miss greatly. Such happy memoirs.
Mrs Elisabeth Bamber